Herpes Myths

  • The Myth

    If you have been with your partner for several years and just found out that you have genital herpes, your partner must have been cheating on you.

    The Reality

    The fact that your partner has been diagnosed with genital herpes does not necessarily mean that he or she has been unfaithful to you. You or your partner may have contracted the disease from another sexual partner a long time ago.
  • The Myth

    PAP smears can detect whether or not you have genital herpes.

    The Reality

    PAP smears are not designed to detect herpes simplex virus.
  • The Myth

    Cold sores are just a lip infection and are not associated with herpes.

    The Reality

    Cold sores are generally caused by herpes simplex type 1. This virus can also cause an initial outbreak of genital herpes if you have oral sex with someone who has a cold sore.
  • The Myth

    Genital herpes can make you sterile.

    The Reality

    Genital herpes can not make you sterile. However, other STDs can make you sterile, so your doctor should test for these infections if you are diagnosed with herpes.
  • The Myth

    If you have genital herpes, you can never have sex again.

    The Reality

    While you should always use a condom for extra protection, you can still have sex if you have genital herpes. BUT you should avoid sexual contact if you have any sores (oral or genital) or symptoms.
  • The Myth

    You can get herpes from toilet seats.

    The Reality

    The genital herpes virus is a fragile virus that dries out when it is exposed to air. There have been no proven cases of genital herpes transmission from a toilet seat.